Those who are worthwhile, whether they are a friend or romantic interest or whatever, will make an effort to stay in your life.
When I met you 2 years and 4 months ago, I instantly knew you were a great, bright person. So I thought. I went above and beyond to do you favors because I knew you had no one else at the time to rely on. I wanted to be there. I even put my own romantic relationship at the time on the line sometimes because I thought you would stick around in the long run more than him. I was right. I’ve seen you fight before when something unjust was done to me. I’ve done the same for you, whether you know it or not.
We’ve had our share of good times and I would not trade those times for anything.
But someone who is willing to completely ignore me on a whim and then pop back in just to call me a waste of time, unmotivated, and a burden that only held you back is not a friend. It’s sad to see you’ve turned out this way. I’ve done nothing to ever intentionally hinder you. In fact, I’ve always wanted to see you grow and mature. I just wanted to be there.
I was not a distraction for you. I am a human being who cared about you.
I don’t need to be hurt by people who don’t really care.